Men trying to understand gay art is like a toddler trying out cartwheels. They just seem incapable without someone holding them and doing it for them.
It's not even like I dislike explaining art (my own or others). I love discussing perspectives in art, intentional, unintentional, political, social. I love thinking about what something means to someone, but I need the other person in the discussion to be on the same level as me. Nothing against people who aren't on the same art understanding level as me, but it's torture to just be holding someone's hand as we speak. Like I interact with simplistic memes that understand objectification and q